this wedding. it was. like thanksgiving dinner. or stars growing heavy and bright off of silvery tree branches. like your grandmother's backyard--the one you climbed trees in. like being home. i’ve tried to write out what this day meant to me and how it felt to be there but i can’t come up with the right words. i will say this—i’ll never forget that in the middle of the reception, i was alone for a moment. i saw the dance floor, and people in line at the bar—some seated mid conversation at long tables—the whole thing lit by an autumn moon and soft yellow string lights. and i felt weightless and overwhelmed with gratitude and blessed that i was there seeing it. i felt my eyes fill up and peace. such peace. thank you, Lord.
Read Morethe light. man, the light on this day. how it touched everything in this pure and lovely and whole way, how everything looked. i was so inspired from minute one, so drawn in by the warmth of marty’s mother and sisters. i felt like i was seeing in slow motion. the tears that lined an’s eyes meeting the tears that lined martha’s. under passing clouds and a very large tree. it was simple and sweet with not one but two ceremony kisses and soft footsteps marking out a first dance. this is my favorite thing to do. my whole heart in it.
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